Thursday, December 22, 2011

Coping with Stress Incontinence

Episodes of urine leakage can affect your home and work life, but there are ways to overcome the challenges.

A sneeze. A cough. A laugh. Moving too quickly. Lifting too much weight. Any of these can trigger stress incontinence, causing a person to uncontrollably leak a small amount of urine.

And since these triggers are all things that occur regularly throughout life, people with stress incontinence can find it very difficult to maintain a normal work and social life. This is particularly true of women, for whom stress incontinence is the most common form of urinary incontinence.

Stress incontinence does not have to force you to withdraw from work, friends, and family, however. There are ways to protect yourself from urine leakage, and ways to communicate your problem to co-workers, friends, and loved ones.

Stress Incontinence and Work

Researchers have found that urinary incontinence can affect your work life, especially if you are suffering from severe incontinence. A recent study revealed that two out of every five women with incontinence had leaked urine on the job during the previous month. That same study revealed that women with severe incontinence said they had trouble concentrating, performing physical activities, maintaining their self-confidence, and completing tasks.

There are ways to avoid embarrassment from stress incontinence while on the job. They include:
  • Using absorbent pads or undergarments to protect against leaking. Be sure the pads contain odor-controlling material.
  • Limiting your physical activity to avoid placing stress on your bladder.
  • Taking frequent bathroom breaks to keep your bladder empty.
  • Strengthening your bladder control by performing Kegel exercises at home.
You must discuss your stress incontinence problem with your employer, particularly if it is severe. Otherwise, you might face criticism for poor concentration or taking too many breaks. And keep in mind that the Occupational Safety and Health Administration has ruled that employers cannot place unreasonable restrictions on employees’ use of toilet facilities, especially if the employee is suffering from a medical condition.

Stress Incontinence and Social Life
 
So much of life involves physical activity that can cause stress incontinence. At least half of women who exercise regularly are at risk for developing stress incontinence, and athletes in high-impact sports are more likely to report stress incontinence symptoms than those participating in low-impact sports.

Sports that can increase pressure on the bladder, and make stress incontinence more likely, include:
  • Martial arts like judo or karate.
  • Team sports like basketball or volleyball.
  • Horseback riding.
  • Body building with heavy weights.
  • Track and field.
On the other hand, there are a number of sports that carry little risk of stress incontinence, including:
  • Bicycling.
  • Swimming.
  • Rowing.
  • Walking.
  • Low-impact aerobics.
  • Activities in which at least one foot is on the floor at all times.
Social activities that lead to stress on the bladder, like very active dancing, should be avoided unless you're wearing absorbent pads.  When attending a social event, you might want to limit your fluid intake and go to the bathroom just before leaving for the occasion.  Dark clothing also can help you mask any inadvertent leaking.  Finally, don't be afraid to talk about your problem with friends and loved ones.  They will accept what you tell them with understanding and good humor.

By Dennis Thompson Jr.  Medically reviewed by Pat F. Bass III, MD, MPH

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Overcoming Caregiver Burnout

Written By : Mark Jordan

Home caregivers are under a great deal of stress, there is no denying. But, along with this it is the ultimate way to show your love. These two types of feelings converge to cause many problems. The daily schedule of care giving, especially for an elderly parent, can cause burnout pretty quickly. You may go from being a person who is concerned and motivated to one who is pessimistic and resentful. Farther down the road you may hit physical exhaustion from the extra work and stress. There is simply too much work and not enough help much of the time. Getting to the burnout stage may cause depression and anxiety. But your love for the person can also then cause guilt.

How Do You Identify The Symptoms Of Care Giver Burnout?

The burnout you may suffer can manifest itself in a variety of ways. It can creep up on you before you even realize what has happened. Do you have one or more of these symptoms?

1. Is your weight fluctuating more than normal? Perhaps you are using food to comfort yourself or withdrawing from food due to a lost appetite.

2. Are you more irritable and having trouble controlling it? This may spill over to the way you treat other family members.

3. Have you quit doing the things in life that used to make you happy such as hobbies or visiting people?

4. Are you experiencing extreme feelings of being overwhelmed with guilt? Sometimes this can even lead to wanting to hurt your self due to the powerful feelings of this stress.

5. How are you sleeping? You may have a change in your habits that you can't seem to break due to feelings of worry and stress. This can mean too little or too much sleep. It goes both ways.

6. Physical Exhaustion. Are you experiencing new pains in joints or your body? How about headaches? This can be from care giver burnout.

Why Does Care Giver Burnout And Guilt Occur?

The physical burnout you suffer may simply be because you have no time to take care of yourself. You may not only have the elderly person to take care of but you may have children and a spouse too, all demanding some time.

Think of the role reversal that may be taking place as well. You now find yourself taking care of a loved one who once was healthy, self-efficient and could communicate with you better. It is difficult to now see this person as something different. You may encounter an identity crisis as you are now the care giver of a parent or friend who once was your equal, or who may have taken care of you in the past.

Home care giving becomes so stressful at times and so burdensome that the extra burden on your time and money makes it unfathomable and difficult to manage. It sometimes seems like everything happens at once and there is little or no good and steady help.

As well the new demands on your physical and mental heath take its toll rather quickly. You may feel you aren't doing all that you can and so are hard on yourself. This is usually just the result of feeling overly responsible.

What Should You Do To Prevent Burnout?

First off you have to be realistic about your loved ones situation and condition. You need to realize from the beginning that you can't do it on your own. Talk to friends and family about the situation to see if they have ideas. They may have gone through already what you are going through.

Set some specific goals for yourself and set schedules in caring for your loved one. Make an effort to enlist the help of others if for no other reason than to get an hour of free time to take a breath or get some exercise. Put this time on a written schedule so you have a clear picture of this new life of yours. On this schedule you should also put things to do that you enjoy such as taking a bath, phoning a friend or catching up on a hobby.

Read and research all you can on your loved ones condition so you have the knowledge to make better decisions. You can only do so much and don't rule out institutional care, or a visiting nurse, if necessary. Seek backup care such as home health care agencies or adult day cares.

Make sure you take physical care of yourself. You will be under more physical stress than usual so this means you should get the necessary exercise, eat well and take vitamins if you can. Support groups for some comradeship are a big help. The last thing you want to feel is alone. Help may be just a question away or at the end of a short phone call.

Thursday, December 8, 2011

Watch Out For These Warning Signs

 
Watch Out For These Warning Signs
by Carol Bradley Bursack
 
Holiday visits are a good opportunity to check on your parents' health and determine if they need extra help. Observe how they behave during your visit to get an accurate view of their needs.

Do they seem depressed? If your parents are sleeping too much, have no interest in their hobbies, or have a decreased appetite, they may be suffering from depression. Ask someone who sees them frequently about their moods when you aren't there.

Are they having balance problems? If a parent is walking unsteadily, insist they see a doctor. Balance problems could be an early sign of an inner ear infection, bad joints, or dementia.

Have they lost a lot of weight? Look in their refrigerator and pantry to make sure they have nutritious food on hand. If eating isn't the issue, suggest they get a complete physical to discover the reason behind the weight loss.

Services that can help

Often, elders don't want to disclose that they are having trouble because they fear they'll have to move to a nursing home. Let them know there are other options, including:

In-home care. These services offer trained professionals who visit your loved one to provide companionship, help with daily tasks, and more.

Adult Day Care. Adult day care centers offer coordinated programs, including a variety of social, health and support services in a safe, protective environment.

When you visit, don't try to change everything right away. Just get a feel for what is going on and note what needs to be done to keep your parents safe, happy, and healthy.
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Here at Touching Hearts Senior Care, we can help in assessing what services your parents or loved ones may need.  We can also assist in setting up those services.  Please do not hesitate to call us at (251) 445-4204 if you any questions.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Living With COPD

With ongoing care and preventive strategies, you can manage your COPD symptoms and keep them under control.

COPD has no cure yet. However, you can take steps to manage your symptoms and slow the progress of the disease. You can:
  • Avoid lung irritants
  • Get ongoing care
  • Manage the disease and its symptoms
  • Prepare for emergencies

Avoid Lung Irritants

If you smoke, quit. Smoking is the leading cause of COPD. Talk to your doctor about programs and products that can help you quit. Many hospitals have programs that help people quit smoking, or hospital staff can refer you to a program.

Try to avoid secondhand smoke and other lung irritants that can contribute to COPD, such as air pollution, chemical fumes, and dust. Keep these irritants out of your home. If your home is painted or sprayed for insects, have it done when you can stay away for awhile.
Keep your windows closed and stay at home (if possible) when there's a lot of air pollution or dust outside.

Get Ongoing Care

If you have COPD, it's important to get ongoing medical care. Take all of your medicines as your doctor prescribes. Make sure to refill your prescriptions before they run out. Bring all of the medicines you're taking when you have medical checkups.

Talk with your doctor about whether and when you should get flu and pneumonia vaccines. Also, ask him or her about other diseases for which COPD may increase your risk, such as heart disease, lung cancer, and pneumonia.

Manage COPD and Its Symptoms

You can do things to help manage your disease and its symptoms. Depending on how severe your disease is, you may ask your family and friends for help with daily tasks. Do activities slowly. Put items that you need often in one place that's easy to reach.

Find very simple ways to cook, clean, and do other chores. Some people find it helpful to use a small table or cart with wheels to move things around and a pole or tongs with long handles to reach things. Ask for help moving things around in your house so that you will not need to climb stairs as often.

Keep your clothes loose, and wear clothes and shoes that are easy to put on and take off.

Prepare for Emergencies

If you have COPD, knowing when and where to seek help for your symptoms is important. You should seek emergency care if you have severe symptoms, such as trouble catching your breath or talking.

Call your doctor if you notice that your symptoms are worsening or if you have signs of an infection, such as a fever. Your doctor may change or adjust your treatments to relieve and treat symptoms.

Keep phone numbers handy for your doctor, hospital, and someone who can take you for medical care. You also should have on hand directions to the doctor's office and hospital and a list of all the medicines you're taking.

Article found on www.everydayhealth.com.

Monday, November 21, 2011

Guide to Gift Card Giving

BBB Advice for Purchasing Valuable Gift Cards


With the holiday season right around the corner and the economy putting the
squeeze on budgets, many shoppers are going to be looking for the best gift
options this holiday season. For those looking to give gift cards to family and
friends, BBB is recommending that you do your research before purchasing a
gift card.

So far, in 2011, BBB has already received more than 440 complaints against
the gift card industry, a huge increase from the 33 complaints received in
2010. In some cases, consumers are disgruntled when they are given an
expired gift card with loaded cash that isn’t usable until the expiration date is
corrected. After sending the expired card in for replacement, the consumer is
left empty handed when the card fails to ever return to them.

“Consumers need to be on the lookout for gift cards that appear to be ‘open’
or out of their original package, and cards that state an expiration date that is
coming up or that has passed,” said Tina Waller, president and CEO of the
Better Business Bureau of South Alabama, Inc.. “Shoppers should be wary of
online auction sites that promise ‘full value guaranteed’ gift cards. It’s sites
like these that are prone to selling old, valueless cards that leave the gift
giver and receiver distraught.”

BBB recommends the following tips for both givers and receivers of gift cards:

Know the rules.
New federal rules that took effect in August of 2010 are designed to protect
consumers, and will restrict fees and affect gift card expiration dates. These
new rules apply to two types of cards: Retail gift cards, which can only be
redeemed at the retailers and restaurants that sell them; and bank gift cards,
which carry the logo of a payment card network like American Express, Visa,
or Mastercard and can be used wherever the brand is accepted.

Check it out.
Make sure you are buying from known and trusted sources.  Always check
out a business at www.bbbsouthal.org.  Avoid online auction sites, because
the cards sold there may be counterfeit or may have been obtained
fraudulently.


Read the fine print before buying.
Is there a fee to buy the card?  Are there shipping and handling fees for cards
bought by phone or online?  Will any fees be deducted from the card after
it is purchased?


Inspect the card before buying it.
Verify that no protective stickers have been removed, and that the codes
on the back of the card haven't been scratched off to reveal a PIN number. 
Report any damaged cards to the store selling the cards.


Provide the receiver with back up.
Give the recipient the original receipt in case the card is later lost or stolen. 
Also, before you buy retail gift cards, consider the financial condition of the
retailer or restaurant.  A card from a business that files for bankruptcy or
goes out of business may be worthless.  If the business close a store near
the recipient, it may be hard to find another location where the card can be
used.  A business that files for bankruptcy may honor its gift cards, or a
competitor may accept the card.  Call the business or its competitor to find
out if they are redeeming the cards, or if they will do so at a later date.


Treat the gift card like cash.
For receivers, it's important to report lost or stolen cards to the issuer
immediately.  Some issuers will not replace cards that are lost or stolen,
while other issuers will, for a fee.  Make sure to use gift cards as soon as
possible, because it's not unusual to lose or forget about them.

For more consumer tips you can trust, visit www.bbbsouthal.org.   

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Three Numbers to Know to Prevent Heart Disease

The equation for a healthy heart is pretty simple: all you need to know are three numbers to help prevent heart disease.
Medically reviewed by Lindsey Marcellin, MD, MPH
 
If you're active and you feel healthy, you may think you've got plenty of time before you have to start worrying about medical issues like heart disease.  But don't assume that you have a healthy heart just because you haven't been diagnosed with heart disease. The beginnings of heart disease could be present in your body even if you feel well.

To know whether you’re at risk, you need to know three numbers: your cholesterol, your blood pressure, and your waist circumference.

Cholesterol Numbers

High cholesterol puts you at risk for heart disease and other cardiovascular problems, such as stroke. Cholesterol is often reported as a single number referred to as “total cholesterol”. But there are both bad and good forms of cholesterol. The bad kind — LDL cholesterol — flows through your blood and sticks to the inside your blood vessels, forming plaques and making it tough for blood to flow freely and get to your heart and brain. The good cholesterol — HDL — can help to minimize this damage. Your levels of LDL and HDL cholesterol are more important than your total cholesterol level.

If your total cholesterol is too high — above 200 mg/dL — you also need to know your LDL cholesterol level. Your LDL cholesterol should ideally be below 100 mg/dL, says C. Noel Bairey Merz, MD, spokesperson for the American College of Cardiology and director of the Women's Heart Center and the Preventive and Rehabilitative Cardiac Center at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles. And you want your HDL cholesterol to be as high as possible; 60 mg/dL or higher is the most protective level for your heart.

Blood Pressure Numbers

High blood pressure can make your arteries rigid instead of flexible, which can also restrict blood flow to essential areas such as your heart and brain. When your blood pressure numbers go up, you're at an increased risk of developing heart disease or having a heart attack or stroke.

Ideally, you want your blood pressure numbers at 120/80 or below. Prehypertension is considered anything above that level up to 139/89, and full-blown hypertension is 140/90 and up. If you fall into these categories, it's time to take action to help prevent heart disease.

Waist Size

You may already know that obesity is a major risk factor for heart disease — and it's a huge problem in the United States. If you carry your weight in your belly (think of a body shape like an apple), you're at an even greater risk. Women should have a waist circumference of no more than 35 inches, while men need to stay below 40 inches. Above those measurements, heart disease risk rises.

Keeping Tabs on Your Numbers

Knowing your heart-health numbers is one of the first steps in preventing heart disease.

While you may know if your waist size is getting too large, high cholesterol and high blood pressure usually don’t cause symptoms. So it’s important to have these numbers checked regularly by a family physician. If the numbers start creeping up, your doctor can advise whether you need to take medication.

The best option to prevent heart disease is to keep your heart numbers in control before they get too high. And monitoring these numbers regularly is key to a healthy heart.

Monday, November 7, 2011

Recognizing the Symptoms of Bipolar Disorder

The signs of bipolar disorder can vary, but are often a combination of extreme highs and extreme lows.

Medically reviewed by Lindsey Marcellin, MD, MPH

People with bipolar disorder can have a range of symptoms. Many experience dramatic mood swings, going from emotional highs to emotional lows with more normal moods in between, while others have much milder mood changes.

Bipolar Symptoms: Mania

Mania is a term that describes the emotional highs of bipolar disorder. Mania, or a manic episode, is usually characterized by feelings of extreme energy, restlessness, or irritability.
In general, symptoms of a manic episode may include:
  • High energy, excessive activity, and/or restlessness
  • Overly good mood
  • Irritability
  • Fast, erratic talking
  • Racing thoughts
  • Inability to concentrate
  • Little need for sleep
  • Feelings of power
  • Poor judgment
  • Reckless spending
  • High sex drive
  • Alcohol or drug abuse
  • Aggression
  • Refusal to admit that there is a problem
The severity of manic symptoms can vary in bipolar disorder, and most people will not experience all symptoms. In some forms of bipolar disorder, people will experience hypomania, a milder form of mania that usually feels good. People who are experiencing hypomania often can function well and be more productive than usual. But if left untreated, hypomania can develop into severe mania or can change to depression.

If your elevated or irritable mood is accompanied by manic symptoms most of the day, nearly every day, for at least one week, your doctor may diagnose a manic episode.

Bipolar Symptoms: Depression

In bipolar disorder, manic episodes alternate with periods of emotional lows, which are known as depressive episodes. Signs of a depressive episode may include:
  • Sadness, anxiety, or a feeling of emptiness
  • Hopelessness
  • Feelings of guilt, feeling worthless, or feeling helpless
  • Lack of interest in activities that were once enjoyable, such as sex
  • Low energy
  • Trouble with concentration or memory
  • Restlessness or irritability
  • Excessive sleeping or insomnia
  • Changes in appetite or weight
  • Pain or other physical symptoms not explained by an illness or injury
  • Thoughts of death, or suicidal thoughts or attempts
A diagnosis of depressive episodes is made if at least five of these symptoms are present for most of the day, nearly every day, for two weeks or longer.

Bipolar Symptoms: Mood Swings

Symptoms of mania and depression can vary dramatically among people with bipolar disorder. All people with bipolar disorder experience mood swings, but the severity of these mood swings can vary.

In the form of bipolar disorder known as bipolar I, there are recurrent episodes of mania and depression. In bipolar II, severe mania never develops, but periods of hypomania alternate with depressive episodes.

The severity and symptoms of bipolar disorder can change over time, and the way the condition is treated may need to change as well.

If you are experiencing mood swings that are disrupting your life, speak to your doctor, who can recommend a mental health professional. Mental health professionals can talk with you about the symptoms, and diagnose and treat bipolar disorder if that is necessary.

Medication and other therapies can help you manage the bipolar symptoms and smooth out the highs and lows that interfere with living a normal, productive life.

Source:  www.everydayhealth.com

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Greater Purpose For Internet Communities and Games in Caregiving

More than 65 million Americans are caregivers to family members with a vast array of illnesses, including Alzheimer's Disease, advanced diabetes, Parkinson's Disease and many others, according to the National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP. Government data show they experience a higher risk of stroke, double the rate of chronic health conditions and enjoy a 40% to 70% increase in the rate of suffering from depression. In addition, they cost U.S. businesses more than $33billion in lost productivity, which makes job security an additional source of stress.
"What's more is that caregivers never give themselves a break," says Sharon Brothers, a social worker with nearly two decades experience with caregivers and their families. "Most caregivers are adding this role on top of their work, their children, marriage and other commitments. Just finding time for a break can seem impossible, given the increased demands on an already busy life."
A Cyber Space Solution

Brothers is also executive vice president of Caregiver Village, an omnibus internet community and resource hub for caregivers that includes expert forum hosts and even an online caregiver game. Her view is caregivers need real tools with a side order of recreation to relieve their stresses.

"Caregivers really value contact with other caregivers who share their experiences and challenges," Brothers says. "Despite the large numbers of people affected, you'd be amazed how alone they often feel. And the truth is that no matter the situation that made them a caregiver, many of the challenges they face are the same. They have more in common with each other than just about any other group of Americans."
Gaming the Stress Away

The lack of recreation is also a factor, which is why Brothers and the Caregiver Village team created an interactive online game for caregivers to help them enjoy a little guilt-free entertainment.

"Computer games are being used productively in a wide array of critical pursuits," says Brothers. "Just recently it was announced that a group of gamers used a puzzle game they created to help AIDS researchers map a key enzyme that could be used as a protease inhibitor for AIDS patients. Researchers had worked for 10 years to unlock the code that gamers deciphered in three weeks. If they can use games to save lives, we figured we could use a game that is based on the mission of caregiving to offer people a little relief from their daily grind.
"We've divided the game into episodes that can be played in a short amount of time and we've embedded information that can help caregivers in their mission," continues Brothers. "That way, they don't have to feel guilty about playing it -- they're actually learning from it. At the end of the day, we believe some of these elements can help bring a little stress relief to people whose days never truly end."
Info:Sharon Brothers, Executive VP of Caregiver Village, holds a masters degree in social work from the University of British Columbia. She built and managed some of the very first specialty care centers for people with Alzheimer’s and dementia in both Washington and California, and has more recently developed an e-learning company for caregiving professionals. She works with family caregivers both in
Caregiver Village and in her leadership of a family support group for her community hospital.
Caregiver Institute LLC, the parent company of Caregiver Village, is headquartered at 12 East 49th Street, 40th Floor, New York, NY, 10017; phone: 212/355-1954.
To learn more about Caregiver Village, please visit http://www.caregivervillage.com/

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Feeling Lousy? Here's What You Should (and Shouldn't) Eat

By Charles Stuart Platkin

When you have one of the following aliments, there are certain foods and/or activities that can make you feel either better or worse. What are they and why?

Condition: Headache

What is it?
Headaches come in many forms, but all cause pain in the area of the upper head and skull. The pain may be dull and steady or throbbing, on one side or both. Visual changes, nausea and vomiting may also occur, says Holly L. Phillips, M.D., the medical correspondent for CBS 2 News and an internist in New York City. According to the National Institutes of Health, there are four types of headaches: “vascular, muscle contraction (tension), traction and inflammatory. The most common type of vascular headache is migraine.”

Does food cause or affect this condition?
Many foods are thought to trigger headaches. Some of the biggest offenders: aged foods (in particular cheese and red wine) and tyramine (which is a breakdown product of amino acids, basically a metabolic waste product) found in foods like canned, cured or processed meats, pickles, canned soups and nuts. Foods with preservatives and additives (sausage, hot dogs, luncheon meats, MSG in Chinese food), can also cause headaches, says Phillips.

Alcohol can cause headaches through dehydration or, some say, the byproducts associated with the metabolism of alcohol. But, according to George R. Nissan, D.O., of the Diamond Headache Clinic in Chicago and spokesperson for the National Headache Foundation, alcohol is not necessarily a trigger, whereas red wine, sparkling wine and beer (particularly draft), because they’re aged, can cause headaches.

Cold foods and liquids may also trigger headaches. Controlled trials suggest that caffeine withdrawal can increase the likelihood of migraine and tension headaches. There is also some evidence that missing meals could cause headaches.

Some foods that contain niacin (even some specialty waters such as Propel contain this nutrient) can cause headaches because niacin is a vasodilator, says Nissan. There is also some controversy surrounding the use of artificial sweeteners, in particular Aspartame, and headaches; however, according to Nissan, there is not enough supportive evidence, and it is still anecdotal. And there is no particular physiological mechanism for Aspartame to cause headaches, says Nissan.

What should I eat?
If dehydration (e.g. after drinking alcohol) is contributing to the headache, drink electrolyte-rich fluids like Gatorade or clear juices. Ginger ale is also a stomach-soothing hangover option. You should also have more water, adds Nissan.

What foods shouldn’t I eat?
Avoid any known triggers as above.

Should I avoid physical activity?
Avoid exercise if you’re dehydrated, says Phillips. However, regular exercise, such as swimming or vigorous walking, can also reduce the frequency and severity of migraine headaches.

Condition: Vomiting and Nausea What is it?
Nausea is, according to the National Institutes of Health, “an unpleasant, wavelike sensation experienced in the back of the throat and/or the epigastrium [the upper-middle part of the abdomen] that may or may not culminate in vomiting.” Vomiting is not an illness in itself; rather, it’s a symptom of another illness. It’s the forceful expulsion or spitting up of food (the contents of your stomach) associated with contractions of the stomach and nausea, says Phillips.

Does food cause or affect this condition?
Having too much of any food often exacerbates vomiting, says Phillips. Also, according to Lisa Feinberg, M.D., a doctor of pediatric gastroenterology at the Cleveland Clinic, “Vomiting can be prevented, once nausea sets in, by consuming small amounts of clear, sugary liquids such as soda, fruit juices and popsicles.”

If you are trying to prevent nausea, eat small meals throughout the day, eat slowly, avoid hard-to-digest foods and avoid foods that have smells (you might have to eat cold foods, because heating foods up creates odor). If you wake up nauseated, eat crackers in the morning or have a low-fat, high-protein snack before you go to sleep, says Feinberg.

What should I eat?
For vomiting, Phillips recommends starting with 4-ounce portions of clear liquids (chicken broth, apple juice, ginger ale), then work your way up to soft foods like Jell-O, bananas, rice, applesauce and oatmeal. It’s most important to avoid dehydration, she adds. Feinberg says to “Consume your foods and drinks slowly and eat smaller, more frequent meals. Do not mix hot and cold foods. Avoid brushing your teeth after eating. Choose foods from all the food groups as you can tolerate them to get adequate nutrition.”

Are there certain foods that I should definitely NOT eat?
Avoid milk and dairy products as they can contribute to nausea, says Phillips. And according to Feinberg, for nausea you “should avoid fried, greasy or sweet foods.”

Should I avoid physical activity?
Avoid exercise to prevent further dehydration. Plus, activity might make nausea worse and could lead to increased likelihood of vomiting.

Condition: Diarrhea

What it is it?
Diarrhea is characterized by frequent, loose, watery stools. It is usually not an illness in itself but rather a symptom of another illness, says Phillips.

Does food cause or affect this condition?
“Food poisoning” is a common cause of diarrhea. It may be viral or bacterial and can be spread by contaminated food products. Diarrhea can be caused by an acute problem, such as an infection (usually viral) or a food intolerance (such as lactose). Chronic diarrhea can be caused by intestinal diseases (like celiac sprue or ulcerative colitis) or functional bowel disorders (like irritable bowel syndrome, also known as "spastic colon"), says James Tebbe, M.D., a doctor of internal medicine at the Ochsner Medical Center in New Orleans.

What should I eat?
With diarrhea, one should drink plenty of clear liquids (water, juices, bouillon/broth) to help prevent dehydration. Sugared liquids are preferred, because they provide calories as well. “I often recommend half-strength sports drinks (like Gatorade), to add some electrolytes (like potassium and sodium). I usually don’t recommend OTC (over-the-counter) diarrhea medications. Some intestinal infections can be made worse by these medications,” says Tebbe. Some encourage the BRAT diet: Bananas (great for potassium), Rice, Applesauce and Toast. If the diarrhea is accompanied by nausea, ice chips may help.

Are there certain foods that I should definitely NOT eat?
Avoid fatty, greasy foods, which may worsen symptoms. Avoid alcohol and spicy foods, which can also worsen diarrhea. And, according to Tebbe, once symptoms are controlled for 24 hours, the diet can be advanced slowly. Start with starches (breads, pastas, etc.), then eggs and lean meats. Avoid dairy products, spicy foods and fried foods for about one week.

Should I avoid physical activity?
You can resume physical activity in a few days, once your fluid losses have been replaced. “If your urine is clear, you're probably well-hydrated. If your urine is dark, you probably still need to replace some of the fluid loss. Also remember that your stamina will not be exactly what it was before your illness,” says Tebbe.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Talking About Independent Living

As your parents get older, they probably will feel very strongly about wanting to continue living independently, despite health problems or other concerns. While adult children often worry about their parents’ situation, it can be difficult to know whether they need or want their children’s help. Finding out what to do means talking with your parents about issues such as their health, finances, and day-to-day capabilities. Because such topics can make both parents and children uncomfortable, many families never discuss, until a crisis occurs, what might be needed for parents to remain living independently.

What You Can Do

For your parents’ welfare and your peace of mind, it’s important to have family conversations about staying at home before problems arise. In fact, an AARP survey found that most parents feel better about having this discussion when things are going well, as part of the planning for their future. Here are some tips for beginning the conversation, dealing with resistance, focusing on the most important points, and keeping the conversation positive.

Beginning the Conversation

For many adult children, finding the right way to bring up the subject of independent living is a major stumbling block. Experts in communication and aging suggest the following ways to break the ice:

- Let your parents know what you need.
Example: “What kind of help would you want if you were not able to do everything yourself and you wanted to continue to live safely in your home?”

- Share your own emotions about your parents’ changing situation, and encourage them to do the same.
Example: “Dad, I know you’ve always prided yourself on being independent. I imagine it’s very difficult for you to ask for help. Is that right?”

- Raise the issues indirectly, related to someone else’s experience or something you have read about or seen on the news.
Example: “I know you’re taking pills for arthritis, your heart, and cholesterol. How do you keep track of which pills to take when? Would it help if you had one of those medication organizers you can buy in the drugstore? There is a compartment for each day of the week so you can put all your pills in at the beginning of the week, and then know if you’ve taken what you need for each day.”

- Watch for openings your parents give.
Example: “You mentioned having problems with your eyesight. Have you seen the eye doctor lately? How does it affect what you normally do, like reading or driving?”

- Give your parents a list of questions or concerns you have about their current and future situations, and schedule a later time to sit down and talk about them. (Consider your own relationship with your parents when attempting this.)
Dealing with Resistance

Your parents may not want to talk about these issues; in fact, some resistance is normal. They may put you off with reassuring statements or tell you to mind your own business. Should you back off or stick with it? Professionals offer this advice:

- Respect your parents’ feelings when they make it clear they want to avoid a subject. You may want to try again another time using another approach.

- Consider pushing the issue if your parents’ health or safety is at risk. This must be a personal decision, recognizing your parents’ right to be in charge of their own lives. Other kinds of crisis situations may also increase your sense of urgency, such as health care expenses depleting a bank account or parents denying the need for critical legal documents.

- Act firmly, but with compassion, if you decide you cannot avoid intervening.
Example: “Dad, we can’t ignore this any longer. We have to deal with it.”

- Involve others, such as other family members or a third party that your parent respects. You may want to hold a family meeting during which everyone discusses concerns and develops a specific, mutually acceptable plan to resolve them.

- Find out on your own about community resources to help older people remain independent, such as transportation or home health care. Then, if it’s clear to you that your parents do need assistance, you’ll be ready to share the options with them.

Focusing on Key Points


The first topic to address is your parents’ own perceptions about their current needs, concerns, worries about the future, and hopes and goals for their older years. Guessing or making assumptions about your parent’s preferences and needs can be destructive. While each situation is unique, major issues that can affect an older parent’s ability to remain independent include those listed below:

- Where they live.
Questions to ask: Is your home still appropriate for your needs? Can you still manage the stairs in your home, or could you do better on only one floor? Does your home have safety hazards that could be removed? Could simple modifications make it easier or more convenient? Should you think about living somewhere else?

- Everyday activities.
Questions to ask: Do you need help with household chores, such as cleaning, fixing meals, or taking care of the house or yard? Does trouble seeing interfere with your daily activities? Can you hear a knock at the door or the telephone ring?

- Getting around.
Questions to ask: Can you get out to your doctor appointments? Is driving the car getting difficult? Do you have reliable transportation for shopping, medical visits, religious services, and visiting with family and friends?

- Health.
Questions to ask: What health problems do you have? Are your prescriptions current? Have you been to your doctor lately? What did he or she say about your health? Did the doctor review all your medications for possible bad reactions? Are you having any problems with taking your medications? Could you use some help remembering what pills to take and when to take them? Can you pay for the medicines the doctor tells you to take?

- Money.
This topic is a particularly tricky area for adult children and their parents to discuss. You may want to be less direct than the following questions, depending on your comfort level.
Questions to ask: What are your current and likely future bills? Can you pay for what you need? Do you need help getting government or pension benefits? Would it be useful to get financial planning help to make your money last? Are your Social Security and pension checks deposited directly in the bank? Is all your financial information in one place? What about getting extra income from the equity in your house? Have you thought about how you might need money in the future to help pay for assistance with everyday activities you might not be able to do yourself? Do you have any bills you can’t pay?

- Paying for health care.
Questions to ask: What kind of health insurance do you have? Medicare? Medicaid? Other insurance, such as a Medigap supplement policy? Has it paid your health care bills so far? Do you have long-term care insurance or life insurance? Have you paid your insurance premiums, and are they up-to-date? Would you like some help in filling out forms like insurance claims? Have you been told that insurance won’t cover some medical tests or procedures that the doctor has ordered? Do you have any questions about Medicare or Medicaid?

While you probably won’t want to discuss all these matters in one conversation, they are issues to keep in mind and to raise as your parents’ situation changes. You may want to ask your parents what issues concern them the most.

Keeping It Positive

Even in the closest families, communicating with parents about their needs is likely to require focus and determination. Several strategies can help keep your interactions positive and productive.

- Use communication that states your concern in the “I” form. Terms like “I feel,” “I need,” or “I expect” are less threatening than “you” statements.
Example: “I’m feeling concerned that you may fall coming down the stairs. I could put a 100-watt bulb at the bottom of the stairs and install a handrail. That would make the stairs safer for everyone.” NOT "Going upstairs in your condition is ridiculous. You’re sure to fall.”

- Avoid role reversal. Talking to parents and helping them meet their needs doesn’t mean you are "parenting” them. The most productive interactions come when parents and adult children are equal in the relationship.

- Be prepared to let your parents make their own life choices, even if you don’t agree with them. Your parents have a right to make their own decisions (as long as they are not cognitively impaired with Alzheimer’s disease or other dementia). Growing older does not diminish that right. Even when they make what you consider an unsafe choice, it doesn’t necessarily mean that they are no longer capable of living independently. You should set your own limits as to how involved you can be, so that their decisions don’t run your life.
Article written by AARP.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Elder Care Case Management by Touching Hearts Senior Care

Touching Hearts Senior Care is a privately owned company that specializes in offering assistance to seniors to help them maintain their independence. THSC provides in-home non-medical services to seniors and those with disabilities. As such, THSC's caregivers can help with anything ranging from light housekeeping and laundry to bathing and dressing needs to incidental transportation. All THSC caregivers are thoroughly screened before hire and are licensed, bonded, and insured. Caregivers are available for time frames ranging from one hour to around-the-clock care.

THSC also specializes in Elder Care Case Management. With these services, THSC Case Managers are able to help older adults and their loved ones with all of the following:

CARE MANAGEMENT
THSC works with older adults and their loved ones to develop a plan of care and services that promotes autonomy and independence. We assist with Long-term Care Policy Reviews, Asset Protection Planning, Alabama Medicaid Exempt Trust Accounts, and Medicaid/VA Eligibility.

FAMILY MEDIATION
We work with the older adult and their loved ones to facilitate communication and informed decision making. This process can help avoid expensive and emotionally taxing court involvement. Voluntary mediation can help families confidentially settle disputes concerning: Care assessment and assignment of responsibilities; Living arrangements; Who should be appointed power of attorney, health care proxy, etc.; How finances should be managed; Estate and trust planning and administration.

DAILY MONEY MANAGEMENT
We encourage individuals to remain in control while receiving the right amount of support in an effort to avoid errors that could potentially lead to both financial loss and loss of independence. We can assist the senior with any of the following: Paying bills and resolving billing discrepancies; Identifying need to create or update important legal documents; Inventorying documents for monthly budget and year-end tax planning; Negotiating with creditors.

MEDICAID AND VETERAN'S BENEFITS
We can help in accessing public and private benefits and entitlements, and can answer the following questions: How can I qualify for Medicaid and still protect my home and assets? How do I possibly avoid Medicaid spend-down and understand look-back periods? What is a Medicaid Exempt Trust and how does it benefit me? Do I understand VA benefits and what is Aid & Attendance? Do I understand what my long-term care policy provides?

PATIENT NAVIGATION
Have you or a loved one just been released from the hospital? We can help you identify and prioritize your unique needs such as utilizing employee benefits and health and long-term care insurance claim reconciliation.

Questions? Please contact Certified Senior Advisor Gina Germany
Phone 251.445.4204
gina@touchingheartsseniorcare.com

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Ten tips to help you adjust to retirement....

1. Partial disengagement - In order to transition smoothly, you must partially disengage yourself from your full time working life. This isn't to say that you must go cold turkey. Instead, you have to develop a different mindset that retirement, although a time for change, is a period of new growth and a time for self fulfillment. At this point, many go from full time to part time and some go from full time to no work at all. Trust your instincts and go with what you feel works for you.

2. Changing our image - You must change your internal image about what your career means. After all, don't focus on 'What am I to do now that I'm retired?" instead think "What will I become once I'm refocused and retired?" Therefore, you have to change your perception and realize that you can succeed as a retiree if you believe that you can.

3. Appreciating ourselves - Remember that you're a unique individual and you need to celebrate this fact, every single day! Your personal worth is far beyond the work you did in the past. You have so much to give and contribute to the world and retirement is the perfect time to let your "inner light shine" and let this light shine as far as you can see.

4. Staying connected - You should be committed to interacting with people with whom you have a common interest. Finding such people can be done by improving your social life to include more people, places and things. Make it a point to get to know people with similar interests as yours. Join clubs and groups, participate in activities, and have a great time.

5. Remain active - Do not think of retirement as only a period of rest and relaxation. Times have changed, and so has the concept of retirement. Being inactive is "OK" if this is all that you want to do. This is about you. Some people take a period of a few months to a year to just cool out and relax before moving on into a more active life. Whether you decide to be "active" or "inactive" and how long, it is totally up to you. You know yourself better than anyone else and you must do whatever makes you happy.

6. Consider your options- Consider your many available options. Whether you 'ease' into retirement, take a course at a college, or work some part time job or pursue a volunteer position, do what you want to do and let no one tell you what you need to do while in retirement. This is your personal time and you are in control of your life.

7. Increase our knowledge - There is no end to educating yourselves. As long as you've got breath in your body, you should increase your knowledge base. After all, learning is a lifelong process and there are many things that you can do to increase your knowledge and in the process share your knowledge with others. For instance, you can learn computers. You can learn how they operate, how to fix them, and many other things. The possibilities are endless.

8. Explore Your Dreams - Retirement is a perfect time to fulfill your dreams, especially now that you have some time to devote primarily to your needs. Take some time and really think about what you want to accomplish in life and then make those dreams a reality!

9. Join a Cause - Retirement does not mean that you are worthless. To derive a feeling of self worth and fulfillment, commit yourself to a worthy cause that you truly believe in. For instance, you might chose to help people become aware of the devastation of HIV or breast cancer.

10. Maintaining youthful attitude - Retirement from a job does not mean that you give up everything and retire to 'watering plants'. Just because you are so does not mean you have to act your age! It is the attitude that counts.

Redefining yourself after retirement is not as difficult as you might imagine. By maintaining a youthful attitude, joining a cause, exploring your dreams, increasing your knowledge, considering your options, remaining active, staying connected, appreciating ourselves, changing your image and partially disengaging from work force, you can redefine yourself.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Selecting an In Home Care-Giver

So the “Aha” moment arrives. Circumstances make you realize two things. 1) I’m not as young as I used to be, and 2.) “Old age ain’t for sissies” as the great Bette Davis once said.

Gradually, or sometimes suddenly, it happens… we can’t keep up with household chores, we can’t see the street signs to drive safely, we give up cooking or we can’t walk without holding on to the furniture. And it begins, a nagging fear that we’re losing our independence. In fact, loss of independence is the biggest fear among seniors. So what is the typical senior response? Pull ourselves up by the bootstraps and keep on going, of course! Call in the kids to help out! They’re supposed to take care of us in our old age, aren’t they? Unfortunately, the kids have spouses and children of their own. And they have full time jobs, not to mention they live out of town. It’s time for a new strategy.

Many seniors are finding the solution to remaining independent at home lies outside the family circle with paid caregivers. Gina Germany, of Touching Hearts Senior Care explains, “Most seniors find caregivers in two ways.
The old way is to run a classified ad or hire through a temporary service. The senior bears all the “employer” responsibility for this kind of caregiver.”

Germany recommends seniors ask the following questions of independent caregivers:

1. What client references can you provide?
2. What is your experience/background?
3. Do you have any certificates or training? Is it current?
4. Have you worked with ( Alzheimer’s disease, cancer, etc)?
5. What would you do if I had medical emergency?
6. How much notice would I have if you could not come in for a day?
Can you arrange your own substitutes?
7. How do I contact you?
8. Are you bonded? Have you ever been convicted of a crime?
9. Do you have liability insurance?

“These folks are usually less expensive but there’s a lot of risk involved in hiring them”, Germany says. She continues, “The downside is:

 It‘s difficult to find the right person.
 You are responsible for performing a criminal background check
 You are responsible for finding a replacement if the caregiver is absent
 You bear the burden for withholding payroll taxes, and providing state mandated worker’s compensation coverage.
 You bear the burden for liability problems like theft from or damage to your property. “


The new way is to contract with a Senior Care Agency. These private agencies provide “in-home, non-medical care”. The number of agencies is growing quickly to meet the demands of a fast-growing senior population. They provide a wide range of services including light housekeeping, meal preparation, laundry, transportation, shopping & errands, and in many states including Alabama, assistance with personal care. These one on one services can continue should the senior move into assisted living or even a nursing facility or hospital.”

Companion Care is usually available anywhere from a few hours up to 24 hours a day. Payment is private pay and may be covered by long term care insurance policies.

Some questions Germany suggests you ask a Companion Care agency:

1. Do they have references from other clients?
2. What services will they be providing?
3. What training/experience do the caregivers have?
4. How do they supervise their caregivers?
5. Are the caregivers bonded and covered by workers compensation insurance?
6. What is the schedule for service?
7. How do I change the schedule?
8. What if I have a problem with a caregiver?
9. Does the agency have an emergency or after-hours phone number?
10. What are the financial arrangements?
11. Who owns the agency? Is it part of a larger organization?
12. Are the caregivers employees held accountable by the agency or independent contractors accountable to no one?
13. Does the agency carry Professional Liability Insurance?

The Pros:

 Service is easily customized for each client’s needs
 Extensive hours available
 Staff is screened and supervised
 Agency is responsible for all employer tasks like payroll, taxes, liability insurance, workers compensation, bonding
 Agency is responsible for providing a replacement should the assigned caregiver fail to arrive or need a day off.

Germany says, “This service is more expensive than independent caregivers but the right agency will provide the most customizable, reliable, worry free, in- home service available.”

Monday, January 3, 2011

Veterans Benefits

If you are a Veterans or if you know of a Veteran, please read this important article about benefits that are available for those who qualify.



You cannot be charged for assistance with your VA application.

The applicant will only be paid back to the date that the application is TURNED IN.

It is not difficult to apply if you have trained advocates to assist you.

The Facts:
-VA Pensions are available for Veterans OR surviving spouses of Veterans.
-$22 Billion dollars is set aside each year for pension but very little is ever used.
-Millions of WWII and Korean War Veterans have no idea that it is even available.
-Surviving spouses of Veterans can qualify if they were married to the Veteran at his time of death, and have not remarried since (unless the most recent marriage was to a Veteran).


Preliminary Qualifications:
-90 days of active duty (anywhere in the world), with 1 day during wartime
-Honorably or Medically discharged
-Privately paying for Medical Expenses


Pension amounts:
-Married Veterans receive $1,949.00 per month / Both spouses Veterans $1,291 each
-Single Veterans receive $1,632.00 per month
-Widows of Veterans receive $1,055.00 per month

Department of Veterans Affairs pensions do not work like Medicaid. They are based upon the amount of medical expenses paid out of pocket for:
• Home Health Caregivers and Nursing Homes
• Assisted Living Communities and Alzheimer’s Communities
• Prescriptions and Medicare Supplement Insurance

There are other internet sources that may give out incomplete information to those who are asking for it. Please call even if you feel that you may not qualify.


Please call Gina Germany with Touching Hearts Senior Care at 251-445-4204
or visit our website at www.touchingheartsseniorcare.com

You cannot be charged for assistance with your VA application.

The applicant will only be paid back to the date that the application is TURNED IN.

It is not difficult to apply if you have trained advocates to assist you.

The Facts:
-VA Pensions are available for Veterans OR surviving spouses of Veterans.
-$22 Billion dollars is set aside each year for pension but very little is ever used.
-Millions of WWII and Korean War Veterans have no idea that it is even available.
-Surviving spouses of Veterans can qualify if they were married to the Veteran at his time of death, and have not remarried since (unless the most recent marriage was to a Veteran).


Preliminary Qualifications:
-90 days of active duty (anywhere in the world), with 1 day during wartime
-Honorably or Medically discharged
-Privately paying for Medical Expenses


Pension amounts:
-Married Veterans receive $1,949.00 per month / Both spouses Veterans $1,291 each
-Single Veterans receive $1,632.00 per month
-Widows of Veterans receive $1,055.00 per month

Department of Veterans Affairs pensions do not work like Medicaid. They are based upon the amount of medical expenses paid out of pocket for:
• Home Health Caregivers and Nursing Homes
• Assisted Living Communities and Alzheimer’s Communities
• Prescriptions and Medicare Supplement Insurance

There are other internet sources that may give out incomplete information to those who are asking for it. Please call even if you feel that you may not qualify.


Please call Gina Germany with Touching Hearts Senior Care at 251-445-4204
or visit our website at www.touchingheartsseniorcare.com